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Sunday, January 8, 2012

Awesome Story - You'll Cry

♦"A touching love story that 'll make u cry"♦



10th Grade:-



As I sat there in English class,


I stared at the girl next to me.




She was my so called 'best friend'.



I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine.



But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it.


After class,



she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before.


I handed them to her.She said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek.


I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends,


I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.


11th grade:-


The phone rang. On the other end,


it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on



and on about how her love had broke her heart.


She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, So I did.




As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine.



After 2 hours,



one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips,



she decided to go home. She looked at me, said 'thanks'




and gave me a kiss on the cheek..I want to tell her,I want her to know that




I don't want to be just friends,



I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.



Senior year:-



One fine day she walked to my locker.



"My date is sick" she said, "hes not gonna go" well,



I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade,


we made a promise that if neither of us had dates,



we would go together just as 'best friends'.



So we did.


That night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step.


I stared at her as She smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes.



Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek.




I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends,



I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.



Graduation:-



A day passed, then a week, then a month.



Before I could blink, it was graduation day.



I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma.



I wanted her to be mine-but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it.



Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat,



and cried as I hugged her.



Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said- 'you're my best friend,



thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek.



I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends,



I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.



Marriage:-



Now I sit in the pews of the church.



That girl is getting married now. and drive off to her new life,



married to another man.



I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't see me like that, and I knew it.



But before she drove away, she came to me and said 'you came !'.



She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek.



I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends,



I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.



Death:-



Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.



At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years.



This is what it read:



'I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn't notice me like that,



and I know it.


I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends,



I love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.


I wish he would tell me he loved me !


I thought to my self,



………" I wish I did too "……….



my Eyes r filled with Tears…. and one Drop just skipped out :O 


Types Of Love – How We Love Someone


Types Of Love – How We Love Someone
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Based on different types of love present in the society, love has been given numerous names. An attempt to put down different types of love in psychology has been made in this article. Eros, Storge, Pragma, Agape, Ludus and Mania are the six different types of love that are known by the intensity and intent of how we love someone. 
Eros- The Passionate Love


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Perhaps, this is the most evident form of love, that we all have experienced in our lives, at some point or the other. Eros, as the name suggests is a type of love, in which the desire, physical attraction, physical appearance and romance is given the top priority. Since eros is mostly an erotic feeling, there are higher levels of passion and physical intimacy. 
Physical attraction can be at peak but in the long run, it fades owing to over importance of physical aspects of the relationship. People who love this way are very charged up, emotional and gung ho about their relationship initially but it fades as time passes. 
Storge- An Emotional Bonding 


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Storge love is the familial love, we experience in our society. The love of our parents and siblings is what constitutes storge love. It is beautiful to experience family bonding and lucky are the people who have families. A baby and a mother share an amazing love, that can be read in the their eyes. A deep and abiding affection is something that comes from deep family relationships. When extended to love between couples, storge love focuses on building compassionate, caring and emotional bonding with the couple. 

Pragma- The Need Based Love 


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Amongst, different types of love, pragma love focuses more on needs and wants, educational qualifications, professions, income, social status, common hobbies, parental possessions, material belongings of the respective partners. The main focus in this type of love is on needs. If everything adjusts to the partners needs, he or she seems to be satisfied, with the partner. 
Agape- The Divine Love


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This is perhaps the most divine and highest level of love; understanding which requires a compassionate heart. Agape is one of the different types of love in Greek, is considered to be the purest form of love. It promotes brotherly feeling and love for each other. In fact, it is exactly what all religions have been trying to teach us. 
Ludus- The Euphoric Love


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Lover's who have the tendency of being in romantic relationships for sometime and give it up, after initial euphoria of thrill and enjoyment is over, are said to be in Ludus form of love. A ludus lover does not work for long term commitments but short term goals and objectives. 
Mania- Obsessive Love 


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It is the worst forms of love and as the name suggests, it is full of insecurity, mania, jealousy and other extreme reactions like obsession, compulsion and excessive demands.

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